Sex Addiction

Sex addiction can impact your relationships, self-esteem, and daily life. It's not just about behavior—it's often rooted in deeper emotional struggles. Many men feel stuck in cycles of guilt and shame, unsure of where to turn. You’re not alone —start here.

Sexual Abuse & Sexual Trauma

The Impact of Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse can deeply affect a man’s emotional well-being and sense of self. I’ve worked with many men who’ve carried the weight of shame, guilt, confusion, or isolation for years—sometimes decades. If this is your story, please know: you’re not alone, and there’s nothing wrong with seeking help. In fact, doing so is a powerful act of courage.

A Safe Space to Heal

At MensWRK, my focus is on helping men navigate the emotional and psychological aftermath of sexual abuse or trauma. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, or simply trying to make sense of what happened—I offer a space where you can speak openly, without fear of judgment. Here, your voice matters, and your experiences will be met with empathy, care, and respect.

Evidence-Based, Personalized Support

I use a range of evidence-based approaches—including talk therapy, CBT, EMDR, and trauma-informed techniques—to support your healing. Together, we’ll build a treatment path that fits your unique needs and pace. The goal isn’t just to manage symptoms—it’s to help you process what you’ve been through, develop healthier coping mechanisms, and rebuild your confidence and inner strength.

Wherever You Are in Your Healing—You’re Welcome Here

Whether you’re just beginning to acknowledge your experience or have been working through it for years, I’m here to walk alongside you. Healing is possible, and you don’t have to carry this burden by yourself. I believe in your capacity to grow, to heal, and to reclaim your life—on your terms.

If you’re seeking counseling for sexual abuse or trauma, I invite you to reach out. Let’s take that next step together.

Porn Addiction & Compulsive Masturbation

Facing porn addiction and compulsive masturbation can feel incredibly isolating—but you don’t have to go through it alone. That’s why I’ve created a safe, non-judgmental space where you can openly explore your thoughts, emotions, and the challenges you're experiencing. Together, we’ll work to understand the deeper issues driving these behaviors and build effective strategies to move forward.

In our sessions, I’ll help you develop healthier coping mechanisms and set goals that reflect your personal values and vision for your life. We’ll also explore the emotional and psychological triggers behind the addiction and identify new, life-giving ways to meet your emotional and physical needs.

At MensWRK, I believe every man deserves the chance to heal, grow, and create a life he’s proud of. Choosing to work with me means taking an important step toward breaking free from the cycle of porn addiction and compulsive behavior.

You don’t have to carry this burden alone. I’m here to support you, guide you, and walk with you toward lasting change. Reach out today to schedule a confidential session—and let’s begin the work toward a healthier, more fulfilling future.

Infidelity & Affairs

Infidelity counseling for men requires a unique and compassionate approach—one that acknowledges the impact of your actions on your partner, your family, and yourself. As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I work closely with men to explore the underlying factors that led to the infidelity. Together, we’ll build insight and empathy, helping you better understand your behavior, your relationships, and the consequences of your choices.

Guilt, shame, and regret are incredibly common in the aftermath of infidelity. I provide a safe, confidential space where you can process those emotions without judgment. In our sessions, we’ll work through the emotional weight you’re carrying, identify healthier coping strategies, and begin making intentional changes toward a more grounded and meaningful life.

Rebuilding trust is a crucial part of healing after an affair. I’ll help you recognize the ripple effects of your actions, communicate more openly and honestly, and begin the process of rebuilding trust with your partner. By confronting the core issues and learning healthier relationship habits, you can lay the foundation for a deeper, more fulfilling connection.

If you’ve been unfaithful and are ready to take responsibility, grow, and rebuild—I’m here to walk that journey with you. Reach out today to schedule a confidential session. Let’s begin the work of healing and transformation, together.

Preoccupation With Sexually Acting Out

Understanding the Impact

When you're preoccupied with sexually acting out, it can affect every corner of your life — your relationships, your career, and your sense of self. I know how overwhelming and confusing this can be. What’s important to understand is that these behaviors are often symptoms of deeper emotional or psychological struggles. Acknowledging this is the first step toward real healing.

Compassionate Guidance

I get how personal and sensitive this journey is. That’s why I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk openly about what you're going through. My goal is to help you explore the root causes of your behavior and walk with you as you build new, healthier ways of coping and living.

Identifying Triggers

One of the most powerful things we can do in our work together is identify the triggers that lead to sexually acting out. I’ll help you recognize patterns and uncover the emotional drivers behind them. Once we understand what’s really going on beneath the surface, we can begin to shift your responses and take back control.

Developing Healthy Coping Strategies

In our sessions, I’ll guide you in developing personalized, practical tools to manage stress, anxiety, and any unresolved emotional pain that may be fueling these behaviors. These strategies will be tailored to your life and your goals, giving you healthier ways to respond to challenges and urges.

Healing & Growth

This work isn’t just about stopping a behavior—it’s about rebuilding your life. Together, we’ll focus on healing emotional wounds, restoring your self-worth, and creating space for stronger, more authentic relationships. My role is to support you as you rediscover who you are and the kind of life you want to lead.

Take The First Step

If you’re struggling with a preoccupation with sexually acting out, I invite you to reach out. You don’t have to face this alone. Schedule a confidential session with me at MensWRK, and let’s begin your journey toward healing, growth, and a more fulfilling life.

Sexual & Intimacy Challenges

Understanding the Impact

When you're preoccupied with sexually acting out, it can affect every corner of your life — your relationships, your career, and your sense of self. I know how overwhelming and confusing this can be. What’s important to understand is that these behaviors are often symptoms of deeper emotional or psychological struggles. Acknowledging this is the first step toward real healing.

Compassionate Guidance

I get how personal and sensitive this journey is. That’s why I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk openly about what you're going through. My goal is to help you explore the root causes of your behavior and walk with you as you build new, healthier ways of coping and living.

Identifying Triggers

One of the most powerful things we can do in our work together is identify the triggers that lead to sexually acting out. I’ll help you recognize patterns and uncover the emotional drivers behind them. Once we understand what’s really going on beneath the surface, we can begin to shift your responses and take back control.

Developing Healthy Coping Strategies

In our sessions, I’ll guide you in developing personalized, practical tools to manage stress, anxiety, and any unresolved emotional pain that may be fueling these behaviors. These strategies will be tailored to your life and your goals, giving you healthier ways to respond to challenges and urges.

Healing & Growth

This work isn’t just about stopping a behavior—it’s about rebuilding your life. Together, we’ll focus on healing emotional wounds, restoring your self-worth, and creating space for stronger, more authentic relationships. My role is to support you as you rediscover who you are and the kind of life you want to lead.

Take The First Step

If you’re struggling with a preoccupation with sexually acting out, I invite you to reach out. You don’t have to face this alone. Schedule a confidential session with me at MensWRK, and let’s begin your journey toward healing, growth, and a more fulfilling life.

Love Addiction/ Love Avoidance

Love & Intimacy Counseling for Men

If you find yourself caught in cycles of constantly seeking attention and affection—or avoiding emotional closeness altogether—you're not alone. These patterns can be confusing, painful, and often deeply rooted. As a therapist who specializes in working with men, I help you uncover the emotional drivers behind these behaviors and support you in building healthier, more meaningful relationships.

Love Addiction

Do you often feel empty or anxious in relationships, even when you're getting the attention you crave? Maybe you become fixated on your partner’s validation or feel lost without constant closeness. These are signs of love addiction—a cycle that can leave you feeling dependent, unfulfilled, and emotionally drained.

In our work together, we’ll dig into the deeper emotional needs behind these patterns. I’ll help you increase your self-awareness, strengthen your communication skills, and build up your self-worth so you no longer rely on external validation for your sense of value.

We’ll focus on:

Understanding Your Triggers: Identifying the emotional roots of your attachment patterns.
Communication Skills: Learning how to express needs and set boundaries clearly.
Building Confidence: Strengthening your sense of identity and self-worth.
Emotional Resilience: Learning to navigate emotions without becoming overwhelmed or dependent on others for stability.

Love Avoidance

On the flip side, you might find yourself pulling away when relationships start to get emotionally close. Maybe you fear vulnerability or feel uneasy when someone wants to connect with you deeply. This may be love avoidance—a way of protecting yourself that can also prevent genuine connection.

In counseling, we’ll explore the fears or past experiences that may be driving this avoidance. Together, we’ll build emotional awareness and develop tools to help you stay present and connected—even when it feels uncomfortable.

We'll work on:

Identifying Avoidance Patterns: Understanding what you’re protecting yourself from.
Increasing Emotional Awareness: Learning how to safely feel and express your emotions.
Reframing Beliefs About Intimacy: Challenging thoughts that tell you closeness is dangerous.
Creating Safe, Healthy Connection: Building trust and learning how to feel secure in emotional relationships.

Whether you're struggling with love addiction, love avoidance, or a mix of both, I'm here to help you break free from the cycle and build a more fulfilling emotional life.

At MensWRK, I offer a safe, supportive space where you can explore your experiences, develop new tools, and grow into the kind of partner— and man —you want to be. Ready to take that first step? Reach out today to schedule a confidential session. Let’s work together to create the emotional connection you truly deserve.

Anonymous Sex, Cybersex & Voyeurism

Struggling with behaviors like anonymous sex, cybersex, or voyeurism can take a serious toll on your emotional and mental well-being—and it often impacts your relationships, self-esteem, and sense of control. If you're feeling overwhelmed with shame, guilt, or self-judgment, please know: you’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay stuck.

As a therapist specializing in working with men, I understand how these patterns can develop. Often, they’re linked to deeper emotional or psychological issues like anxiety, unresolved trauma, or depression. In our work together, we’ll explore the roots of these behaviors, not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion.

In our sessions, we’ll take a close look at what’s driving these urges and how they’re affecting your life. I’ll help you gain insight into your patterns, develop healthier coping strategies, and start building the kind of life and relationships you truly want.

My role is to provide a safe, supportive space where you can be honest about your struggles without fear of being shamed or labeled. I’ve had extensive training in working with men dealing with issues like anonymous sex, cybersex, and voyeurism—and I’ll walk with you step-by-step through a personalized treatment plan tailored to your goals.

Whether you're looking to regain control over compulsive behaviors, rebuild your self-worth, or learn how to create more meaningful and healthy connections—I’m here for you. Every man’s journey is different, and I’ll meet you exactly where you are. If you're ready to take the first step, reach out. Let’s work together to reclaim your sense of self and move toward emotional and sexual wellness. You don’t have to do this alone.